Well here it is!!! Anyone who knows David and I will know that we would like nothing more than to be dads.
Earlier this year we kicked off the process and had a meeting with a local authority adoption service. I have to say, in the scheme of things we were probably under prepared. But like everything in life, when something comes your way you have to learn from it and grow. And that's what we did. We've read, joined groups, made contacts and talked more than we previously had.
The first agency we contacted (who as it happens think we have real potential as parents) want to delay the process for 6 months while we have some childcare experience, so if you want a free baby sitting service you know where we are!!!
As I said since we last spoke to them we've done lots of research which has led to us decide to look at other authorities and agency. This could open up a whole new story for us!!
So, it's early doors but there is so much to come. We know it's going to be a rollercoaster and a long ride but it's gonna be wort it......isn't it?
What an amazing journey you have ahead of you! And yes - it is well worth it. Kids are draining, challenging, expensive, difficult, fragile and sometimes hard to understand ...... But being a parent is the best feeling in the world!
ReplyDeleteI have never met David but I am sure if he is half as lovely as you Dave it will be one lucky child - or children ...... Or lots of children!!!
Good luck and I shall read your blog, and follow your journey with great interest.
Big hugs
Kellie xxxx
Hi, I have just come across your blog and couldn't run without commenting. you are on such an amazing journey. being a mum is the best thing that ever happened to me and you are just about to begin that emotional rollercoaster! can't wait to read more, good luck to you both, love emma x x x
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